4th Graders Bullied and Overlooked After Coach and Adults Outside North Lamar Make Unfair Team Selection
4th Graders Bullied and Overlooked After Coach and Adults Outside North Lamar Make Unfair Team Selection
Children not selected for teams report bullying and feel left behind.
October 27, 2026
This article was last updated by Alisha Shrestha on October 27, 2026
At North Lamar Youth Football & Cheerleading, the 3rd/4th grade Blue team recently celebrated a 26-6 victory against Bells, advancing to the third round of playoffs next Saturday in Blue Ridge.
While the Panthers push closer to the Super Bowl, concerns about fairness and bullying among younger players have emerged.
Kalie Bledsoe, a parent of a 4th grader, spoke out about the controversial team selection process.
“The 4th grade team was split in a very unfair way,” she said.
“The children who weren’t chosen have been left to fend for themselves in a league they weren’t prepared for. Some players weren’t even from North Lamar. If anyone thinks this was fair, they should reconsider.”
Bledsoe emphasized that her concern goes beyond wins and losses.
“The kids on this team have been a huge part of bullying my child in the past,” she said.
“Changes could have been made when multiple parents raised concerns, but they were ignored. The 4th graders not selected noticed, as did their teammates, and they’ve been bullied because of these unfair decisions.”
She further criticized the decision-making process, noting that space existed for both a 3rd grade and a 4th grade team.
“If teams were to be split, it should have been done fairly, respecting all players. Other schools were not expecting to play against a team of all 4th graders, and our team wasn’t prepared. This situation was not the coach’s fault.”
The comments section of the discussion highlighted that Bledsoe’s concerns resonate with other parents.
Indy Cole shared that their own child had faced bullying in North Lamar sports programs, which eventually led him to quit football. Cole added,
“It’s unfair to children when dedication and hard work don’t lead to inclusion. We have to advocate for our kids because no one else will.”
Despite these challenges, Bledsoe praised North Lamar as a school district.
“The teachers and staff have been amazing, accommodating my child’s needs and supporting his growth,” she said.
“It’s unfortunate that decisions about sports teams are made by adults outside the school district, impacting the children’s experience unfairly.”
As the debate continues online, parents like Bledsoe urge community members to prioritize fairness, transparency, and the well-being of all young athletes, ensuring that no child feels overlooked or bullied in the process.
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